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Son obituary examples for inspiration

You're here because you lost your son. There's no softening that. A parent writing an obituary for a child goes against every natural order we expect. Whatever his age, whatever the circumstances, this is one of the hardest things you'll ever have to do. Take your time. There's no right way to write about your child. But the words you choose will matter to the people who loved him too.

Heartfelt and personal son obituary examples

Ryan Christopher Donovan

Heartfelt~260 words
Ryan Donovan, 28, of Boston, Massachusetts, died on February 2, 2026, in a hiking accident on Mount Washington. He was doing something he loved in a place he loved, and that is the only comfort his family has been able to find so far. Ryan was born in Quincy to Patrick and Maureen Donovan. He graduated from BC High in 2015 and from Boston College in 2019 with a degree in environmental science. He worked at the New England Aquarium, where he gave tours to school kids and could identify every species in every tank. He was the kind of person who made friends in the first five minutes of meeting someone. His apartment was the one where everyone gathered on Sunday nights. He couldn't cook much, but he made the best guacamole in Southie and no one ever argued about that. Ryan hiked, kayaked, snowboarded, and had a talent for convincing sedentary people to try things they'd never considered. He logged 47 of the New Hampshire 4,000-footers and wanted to finish all 48 this year. Ryan is survived by his parents, Patrick and Maureen Donovan; his brother, Kevin Donovan; his sister, Erin (Sean) Connolly; his girlfriend, Alyssa Chen; and his grandmother, Helen Donovan. A funeral Mass will be held Saturday at 10 a.m. at St. Ann's Church, Quincy. In lieu of flowers, donations may be made to the Appalachian Mountain Club.

What makes this work

The opening acknowledges both the tragedy and the small comfort without forcing positivity. The guacamole detail and the 47-of-48 hiking goal show a life in progress, interrupted. This obituary respects the reader enough to let sadness sit alongside the celebration.

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Anthony James Russo

Warm~240 words
Anthony Russo, 42, of Philadelphia, Pennsylvania, died on January 30, 2026, after a long struggle with addiction. His family wants people to know that because silence doesn't help anyone. Anthony was born in South Philly to Anthony Sr. and Maria Russo. He graduated from St. Joseph's Prep in 2001 and attended Temple University. He was smart, funny, generous, and sick. All of those things were true at the same time. Anthony worked as a carpenter and was good at it. He could look at a room and see what it was supposed to be. He rebuilt three kitchens, two bathrooms, and a front porch for his parents that the neighbors still compliment. He loved the Phillies with the kind of devotion that defied logic, especially during the bad years. He played in a rec basketball league every Thursday and read more books than anyone in his family, mostly history and science fiction. Anthony had periods of recovery that gave his family hope. The last three years were hard. The family wants to honor all of who he was, not just the parts that are easy to talk about. Anthony is survived by his parents; his brother, Michael (Jessica) Russo; his sister, Christina Russo; three nephews; and his dog, Rocky. Funeral Mass will be held Wednesday at 10 a.m. at St. Monica's Church. In lieu of flowers, donations may be made to the Philadelphia Recovery Community Center.

What makes this work

This obituary makes a brave choice in naming addiction directly. The line "smart, funny, generous, and sick" refuses to separate the person from the disease. The practical details about his carpentry skills show a whole person, not a cautionary tale.

Lieutenant Nathaniel Scott Harper, USN

Formal~280 words
Lieutenant Nathaniel Scott Harper, United States Navy, 31, of Virginia Beach, Virginia, died on February 5, 2026, during a training exercise at Naval Air Station Oceana. Nathaniel was born on July 14, 1994, in Nashville, Tennessee, to Scott and Linda Harper. He graduated from Montgomery Bell Academy in 2012, where he was captain of the swim team and an Eagle Scout. He earned his Bachelor of Science in aerospace engineering from the United States Naval Academy in 2016, graduating in the top ten percent of his class. Upon commissioning, Nathaniel completed flight training at NAS Pensacola and earned his wings of gold in 2018. He was assigned to Strike Fighter Squadron 143, the Pukin' Dogs, flying the F/A-18E Super Hornet. He deployed twice to the Western Pacific aboard USS Abraham Lincoln. Nathaniel was the officer who volunteered for the hardest assignments and the friend who drove two hours to attend a birthday party. He called his mother every Sunday. He ran a 5K with his father every Thanksgiving. He taught his younger sister to parallel park and only yelled twice. Nathaniel is survived by his parents, Scott and Linda Harper; his sister, Caroline Harper; his fiancee, Lieutenant (j.g.) Megan O'Donnell; his grandparents, Robert and Jean Harper; and his many brothers and sisters in the Navy. Funeral services with full military honors will be held Thursday at 11 a.m. at the Naval Academy Chapel in Annapolis, Maryland. In lieu of flowers, the family requests donations to the Navy SEAL Foundation.

What makes this work

The formal structure befits a military obituary, but the personal details, the Sunday calls, the Thanksgiving runs, the parallel parking lesson, show the person behind the uniform. The squadron nickname adds authenticity without explaining it.

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Frequently asked questions

Are these real obituary examples?

These are realistic sample obituaries written to illustrate different tones, lengths, and structures. They are based on common patterns found in published obituaries, but the names and details are fictional. Each example is designed to show you what a finished obituary looks like for a specific relationship.

How do I use an obituary example?

Read through the examples for the relationship that matches your situation. Pay attention to the structure, the kinds of details included, and the overall tone. Then write your own obituary using the same approach but with your loved one's real details. You can borrow phrasing, structure, or the overall flow. The goal is inspiration, not copying word for word.

What tone should I choose?

Warm works well for most situations. It feels personal without being overly emotional. Formal is a good fit for newspaper submissions or when the person held a prominent role. Heartfelt suits someone whose personality and relationships were the center of their life. Traditional follows classic obituary conventions. Modern takes a less structured, more conversational approach.

What's the difference between an example and a template?

An example is a fully written obituary that shows you what the finished product looks like. A template is a fill-in-the-blank framework where you insert your own details. Examples help you understand tone and style. Templates help you get to a finished draft faster. Both are available on this site.

Should I use an example or the AI generator?

Examples are useful when you want to see what others have written and borrow ideas for your own draft. The AI generator is better if you want something written specifically for your loved one. You answer questions about their life, personality, and what made them who they were, and the AI writes a personalized obituary based on your answers. Both are free to start.

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Writing more than the obituary? See Eulogy for a son, Son obituary templates, and Newspaper submission guide.