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Uncle obituary examples for inspiration

You're here because you lost your uncle. He might have been the one who slipped you cash when your parents weren't looking, told you stories your parents wouldn't, or showed up to every important event without being asked. Uncles often play a quieter role in a family, but that doesn't make it a smaller one. Writing his obituary is a chance to acknowledge what he meant.

Heartfelt and personal uncle obituary examples

Terrence Dwayne Brooks

Heartfelt~230 words
Terrence Brooks, 58, of Jackson, Mississippi, died on February 12, 2026, after a sudden cardiac event. Terrence was born in Jackson to Earl and Gladys Brooks. He graduated from Jim Hill High School in 1985 and worked at the Nissan plant in Canton for 28 years. He was the kind of worker who trained every new person on the line and never made them feel stupid for asking questions. Terrence never had his own kids, but his nieces and nephews would argue that point. He was the uncle who picked them up from school when their parents couldn't, who sat through every talent show and soccer game, and who kept Kool-Aid pops in his freezer year-round specifically for their visits. He was a deacon at New Hope Baptist Church and organized the annual church fish fry for 15 years. He loved fishing at Ross Barnett Reservoir, watching Jeopardy every weeknight, and arguing about football with anyone who would engage. Terrence is survived by his mother, Gladys Brooks; his brothers, Earl Jr. (Donna) and Marcus (Keisha) Brooks; his sister, LaTonya (Derrick) Williams; eight nieces and nephews; and his dog, Duke. Homegoing celebration will be held Saturday at 11 a.m. at New Hope Baptist Church. In lieu of flowers, donations may be made to the American Heart Association.

What makes this work

The Kool-Aid pops detail is specific and perfect. Saying his nieces and nephews "would argue" about him not having kids honors the depth of those relationships. The obituary doesn't treat being unmarried and childless as a gap; it shows a life full of family regardless.

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Raymond Joseph Kelly

Warm~240 words
Ray Kelly, 70, of Scranton, Pennsylvania, died on February 6, 2026, at Geisinger Community Medical Center. His nieces and nephews are still processing the fact that the man who seemed indestructible was, in fact, not. Ray was born in Scranton to Joseph and Mary Kelly. He served in the Marine Corps from 1974 to 1978, then came home and went to work for the Scranton School District as a custodian. He retired 30 years later as head of maintenance, having personally fixed, according to his estimate, "every single thing that ever broke in that building." Ray never married. He said he was married to the job, which his family understood to mean he preferred his own schedule and his own remote control. He lived in the house he grew up in and kept it exactly the way his mother had it, except for the recliner he added in 1995. He was the uncle who taught the kids to throw a football, who always had twenty dollars for ice cream, and who showed up for every important event without ever being asked. Ray is survived by his brother, Michael (Patty) Kelly; his sisters, Kathleen (Bob) Nealon and Eileen Kelly; ten nieces and nephews; and his dog, a beagle named Coach. Funeral Mass will be held Thursday at 10 a.m. at St. Paul's Church. In lieu of flowers, donations may be made to the Scranton Public Library.

What makes this work

The self-quote about fixing everything is funnier and more revealing than any third-person description. The explanation for never marrying is delivered with the same dry humor Ray clearly possessed. The recliner detail makes you smile.

William Arthur Chen

Formal~250 words
William Arthur Chen, 65, of Seattle, Washington, passed away on January 25, 2026, after a lengthy illness. Born on October 12, 1960, in Seattle to Arthur and Helen Chen, William was the second of three children. He graduated from Franklin High School in 1978 and earned his degree in civil engineering from the University of Washington in 1982. William spent 35 years with the Washington State Department of Transportation, rising to senior project engineer. He oversaw the reconstruction of portions of Interstate 90 and the Mercer Island interchange. His colleagues say he was the engineer who actually read every page of the environmental impact reports. William married Susan Park in 1987. They divorced amicably in 2002 and remained friends. He had no children of his own but was a devoted uncle to his four nieces and nephews, attending their games, graduations, and milestones with the consistency of a parent. He was an avid hiker, a mediocre golfer (his own assessment), and a devoted supporter of the Seattle Mariners through decades that tested his loyalty. He was a member of the Chinese Community Benevolent Association. William is survived by his brother, Robert (Lisa) Chen; his sister, Nancy (Mark) Tanaka; his four nieces and nephews; his former wife, Susan Park; and his cat, Chairman Meow. A memorial service will be held Saturday at 2 p.m. at Butterworth's Funeral Home. In lieu of flowers, donations may be made to the Chinese Community Benevolent Association of Seattle.

What makes this work

Acknowledging the divorce and continued friendship is honest and increasingly common. The self-assessment of his golf game adds personality. The cat's name tells you he had a sense of humor even if the formal structure of the obituary doesn't emphasize it.

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Frequently asked questions

Are these real obituary examples?

These are realistic sample obituaries written to illustrate different tones, lengths, and structures. They are based on common patterns found in published obituaries, but the names and details are fictional. Each example is designed to show you what a finished obituary looks like for a specific relationship.

How do I use an obituary example?

Read through the examples for the relationship that matches your situation. Pay attention to the structure, the kinds of details included, and the overall tone. Then write your own obituary using the same approach but with your loved one's real details. You can borrow phrasing, structure, or the overall flow. The goal is inspiration, not copying word for word.

What tone should I choose?

Warm works well for most situations. It feels personal without being overly emotional. Formal is a good fit for newspaper submissions or when the person held a prominent role. Heartfelt suits someone whose personality and relationships were the center of their life. Traditional follows classic obituary conventions. Modern takes a less structured, more conversational approach.

What's the difference between an example and a template?

An example is a fully written obituary that shows you what the finished product looks like. A template is a fill-in-the-blank framework where you insert your own details. Examples help you understand tone and style. Templates help you get to a finished draft faster. Both are available on this site.

Should I use an example or the AI generator?

Examples are useful when you want to see what others have written and borrow ideas for your own draft. The AI generator is better if you want something written specifically for your loved one. You answer questions about their life, personality, and what made them who they were, and the AI writes a personalized obituary based on your answers. Both are free to start.

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